Review

That's Not Cool

Common Sense Media says

Tackles digital dating abuse with videos appealing to teens.
Age
13
Quality
 
Learning
4

  • The site gives kids an excellent vocabulary for discussing boundary issues.
  • Not applicable.
  • The site discusses the problems associated with sharing sexual or revealing photos.
  • No bad language on the site, but comments link to users' YouTube profiles, where anything goes.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this ad-free site helps teens recognize when digital dating behavior becomes dangerous or abusive (stalking, violating privacy, pressure to send nude pictures) and how to deal with it. That's Not Cool's content is right on target, but there are a few iffy comments that link to users' YouTube profiles, where anything goes.


This review of That's Not Cool was written by
Age
12
Based on 3 parent & educator reviews:
  • 33% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking

Most useful reviews by all members

Educator and Parent of 14 and 17 year old
February 4, 2009
 
Parents need to get involved
That's great for the kids to help themselves, I have no problem with Thatsnotcool*. But, I'm looking forward to seeing their resources for parents. That would have been my first step. Many of the reviews have focused on sexting and the posting of inappropriate photos. But, to their credit, that's not what Thatsnotcool is really concerned about. It's about every day kids hassling kids. It's nothing really new and it is why parents need to "be there,," to help them focus on what is real. So, in the 21st Century parents need to be involved in the electronic message flow, everyday. They are not going to stop it. If parents add their kind, responsible, caring adult words to the stream of ideas their children are seeing on the tiny cellphone screens, it may help offset the hurtful juvenile junk. I stumbled on the issue of text abuse last year in my early research for WuduPlz*. This is the reason why we installed tight security on our texting-sending web service. And it's also why we have (a non-advertised) "bad word" filter on WuduPlz. We did not want bad actors using our service. (It is next to impossible to send an anonymous message via WuduPlz, but it's still handy for members.) In talking about with teachers and others who work with older kids, we found they were eager to have responsible adult voices joining the youthful chatter on the cellphones screen of students, especially for middle school children. "Wuduplz can help inject a reality check," we were told. And we made "add a reality check" a part of our pitch to parents. Here's the link: *://*wuduPlz* Here's our YouTube video: *://*youtube*/watch?v=rd-8UcdNalU

Parent
August 10, 2010
 
ThatsNotCool! in my opinion,
people over 20 should get an account for ThatsNotCool, not for kids or teens.

Teen, 13 years old
August 10, 2010
 
ThatsNotCool! in my opinion,
people over 20 should get an account for ThatsNotCool, not for kids or teens.

Parent of 11 year old
February 15, 2010
 
perfect for tweens and older
I think this website has great infomration for young people who are trying to figure out whats ok and what is not...It speaks directly to them, its both serious content but with some humor.

Kid, 11 years old
August 11, 2011
 
give it a chance
this is a good thing for teens and other ages to look in to it changed my life just by reading it changed my brothers to,give it a chance and you will see what i mean. thank you.sarah young

Teen, 14 years old
October 17, 2009
 

Parent
May 18, 2012
 
Learning3
Not Drinking
I think drinking is really bad i prefer for my children not to drinking it leads people to all the wrong places.

Teen, 15 years old
May 18, 2012
 
Learning3
Not Drinking
I think drinking is really bad i prefer for my children not to drinking it leads people to all the wrong places.

Take as directed.
Frank girls' site has advice, fun, and iffy stuff.

Socially conscious blog that focuses on MTV celebs.

Learning2