Review

The Perks of Being a Wallflower

  • Review Date: September 18, 2012
  • PG-13
  • Genre: Drama
  • 2012

Common Sense Media says

Book-based drama for mature teens tackles tough subjects.
Age
14
Quality
 

  • Teens may sometimes feel lost or inconsequential, but when they find their footing and are able to tap into their authentic selves, they can feel (per the movie) "infinite."
  • Charlie has issues -- he blacks out when he's in a fight, for instance, seemingly out of rage -- but despite the challenges he's faced, he's a loyal friend with good intentions and a big, open heart. His friends, though juggling their own issues, are kind and supportive of one another.
  • One character is shown to have assaulted another who's defenseless (to provide more specifics is a big spoiler, but it's tragic). A truck is shown barreling straight for another car, the driver in peril. Teen boys harass a gay student and, at one point, beat him up; another rises to his defense, pummeling the others (viewers see mostly the aftermath). Another gay teen hides in the closet for fear that his parents and friends will disown him or worse. A boy hits a girl.
  • Both same- and opposite-sex couples make out (viewers see them kissing and groping each other), and there's talk of people having sex, though viewers don't really see it.
  • Language includes "f--k" (once), "s--t," "ass," "a--hole," "jerk," "spaz," "piss," "slut," "hell," "goddamn," "oh my God," and more. The word "f-g" is used as a slur.
  • Brands seen/mentioned include Olive Garden.
  • Underage teens drink (beer and hard liquor), mostly at parties, where they also smoke weed. One teen also has an acid trip.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that The Perks of Being a Wallflower (based on the same-named book by Stephen Chbosky) is an edgy, moving, and layered coming-of-age dramedy that's frank about the troubles and exploits of teenagers. You see them fret over their futures, push back against parental intervention, drink, make out, and use drugs. One girl also blithely jokes about being bulimic. Expect to see couples (both same- and opposite-sex) making out, teens bullying each other, and plenty of swearing. There's also a big reveal about a major, tragic trauma. Harry Potter's Emma Watson co-stars, but this is a much more mature role for her than Hermione.


This review of The Perks of Being a Wallflower was written by
Age
14
Based on 12 parent & educator reviews:
  • 67% say there's too much drinking, drugs, or smoking
  • 67% say sexual content is an issue
  • 58% say language is an issue
  • 50% say there are positive messages

Most useful reviews by all members

Teen, 14 years old
September 29, 2012
 
Fantastic Film with Mature Subject Matters
I thought that this movie was fantastic! They left some stuff out from the book, but it was really well done and well acted, especially Ezra Miller :) there was a lot of heavy topics in this movie, including abuse and child molestation (several cases). There is a fight between Patrick and Brad after they get caught together, and there drugs and alcohol are used often at their parties. Sex and sexual content is another thing to worry about. Overall, I think that it's OK for some 12 or 13 aged kids, but it really depends on there maturity. I think that at age 14 though, you should be able to handle it and really quite enjoy it! Hope this helps.

Parent of 10 and 12 year old
October 9, 2012
 
Right on Time for my 7th grader!
I have not read the book, but just took my mature 12 (13 next month) year old to see this tonight hoping to generate some conversation about what to expect in the next few years ...And, of course, how to manage those situations. I'm happy to say that it worked like a charm! The movie introduced teen interpersonal relationships (both hetero and homosexual), the power of friendship, the effect of drugs (for the average teen, we're not talking Go Ask Alice here) and alcohol on your judgement. It also showed how lonely all teeneagers are when they're alone with their thoughts. We've already had a great conversation on the drive home from the theater, and I'm hoping to have a couple more of the coming days. Lots of these topics are RIGHT ON TIME for my 7th grade kid. So glad I took him to see it!

Teen, 14 years old
October 5, 2012
 
Inspiring
This was probably the most inspiring movie I have ever seen. It had such a good massage about being who you are and really made ne think. Loved it.

Teen, 14 years old
October 7, 2012
 
Finally a Good Adaptation
This movie was so well done. It was never too inappropriate or too cheesy. It makes you laugh it makes you wanna cry it makes you realize how great life is. Watch it!

Adult
October 18, 2012
 
Great realistic High School Angst movie for teens and parents.
A psychologist friend brought her family (ages 12, 10, and 8) to this movie, raved about it, and said all her friends should bring their kids to see this movie. On a whim, a girlfriend and I went to see it last night, and i am SO GLAD I didn't bring my boys 11 and 10. it's a GREAT movie, and should be seen by teens - but I don't think it is appropriate for junior high schoolers and younger. GREAT movie vehicle to open communication with your kids about bullying, homosexuality, sex, bulimia, molestation, and much more.

Parent of 12 year old
October 21, 2012
 
Trailer Misleads -- This is a Troubling, Sordid Tale
If you want to take your child to see a movie about child molestation, pot brownies, acid trips, suicide, mental illness, disconnected parents and gay stereotypes, then this would be a good film for you. Yeah, the relationship between the 3 main characters is a decent example of friendship, but overall this movie is full of forced, gratuitous and, ultimately valueless, drama. Was hoping for stuff to talk about with my middle school daughter, instead I just wanted to hit 'delete' on 2 hours of wasted time. A big letdown...

Teen, 14 years old
October 20, 2012
 
WOW!
This was an incredible movie. It was very moving and emotional. It might not be good for younger kids because some of the topics are a little overwhelming and mature but other than that it was great. You know what your child can and can't handle.It shows that everyone wants to be special and fit in. I loved it! :)

Teen, 14 years old
October 19, 2012
 
Phenomenal, heart warming movie truly impresses

Teen, 14 years old
October 23, 2012
 
And in this moment I swear we are infinite.
The perks of being a wallflower is honestly the best movie I've seen all year. It stuck very closely to the book, all the characters fit their roles very well. It's a perfect movie for anyone starting High School. 5 Stars for Steven Chbosky's The Perks of being a Wallflower.

Teen, 16 years old
October 28, 2012
 
Perfection
This movie was amazing! I was surprise of how close the movie was to the book. I went with my family to watch the movie. After seeing the movie we've became closer then ever. We brought up topics that we never talked about until the trip home from the theater. Open-minded people who never read the book or have would enjoy this movie as well.

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